不知道是我变敏感了，还是冬天里，野蛮的人们越来越多了，骑车在路上，我总是被左右两边斜插的人车吓到。吓到不要紧，彼此间停下，调整位置，继续走人就行，可总有人喜欢对着别人的背影说话。譬如今晚回家路上，我的车后轮被一个自行车强行左拐刮到，我跳下车把车弄稳，继续上路却听到后方传来意为“脑子有问题”但遣词造句比这难听的话。这马路就是这么开的，我笔直地骑着，完全按照马路的轨迹，是你歪了撞了我来，为啥还要骂人呢，而且还是这8杖子也打不着的话，不知道是啥逻辑喔~~

 

再有一件小事，也想说说。对于那种餐厅的玻璃门，一般出门Push，进门Pull，我有个习惯，就是不管进门出门，都要看下有没有人在我身后，若有，我都会拉着或推着门，等别人都闪了我再关门。因为是个习惯，所以次数多了，见到的反应也就多了：除却那些绅士风度极佳的男人会抢在我之前开门，无论与我是否认识，大多数人会说“谢谢”，“哎，好，谢谢”，“好，我来”，并有加快速度的趋势，即使没任何声音，也会点个头之类的。可昨天我就遇到个极品男，再一次让我对“干部”行业失去好感。我和麻团走出一餐厅，他在戴围巾手套，而且我走在前面，那出门的时候自然是我推门，看到他身后还有个男人，于是在麻团走出来之后，我还是持着门等他。此男不知在和哪个宝贝电话，笑得灿烂，走出门，经过我身边，让我彻底的感觉到自己作了一次，门童。没有语言，动作和眼神的任何反应。此男径直走向停在餐厅门口的一辆黑车，车牌是00006，凭我那点知识也知道这是经常出没于北京西路一带的车了。原来是领导啊，我和麻团很肉麻的对笑了一下。他说下次这种人，就要把门砸他脸上。领导，人家是习了惯了有一堆人给他开门呢。我有幸帮了个领导开门，虽然我也不知道他姓啥名谁，虽然是个不谈礼貌教养，起码是没为“和谐社会”作出巨大贡献的领导，连一般老百姓的觉悟都没有的人！

 

其实这都是很小很小的事情。而且，“宽以待人，严于律己”，也是应该的。只是存在这样的一个小希望，也给自己顺便提了醒。

小细节，我们也该做的很好:)

琢磨着要不要在Space里面添加音乐，自己喜欢，但也怕给朋友增加浏览时的麻烦。

所以就单把歌词贴来吧^_^

 

Forever——《永远》

I stand alone in the darkness .............. 独自伫立在凄冷的夜
The winter of my life came so fast ......... 生命的寒冬铺天盖地的来
Memories go back to childhood .............. 童年的回忆充满馨香
to days I still recall ..................... 至今让我难忘怀
Oh how happy I was then ? .................. 噢!那时我是多么欢快

There was no sorrow there was no pain....... 没有痛苦 没有哀愁
Walking through the green fields ........... 漫步在葱绿无垠的田头
Sunshine in my eyes ........................ 阳光如金跃入眼眸

I’m still there everywhere ................. 无论身在何方 我心永在记忆的深秋
I’m the dust in the wind ................... 我是风中一粒尘
I’m the star in the northern sky ........... 我是北天一颗星
I never stayed anywhere ............. ....... 天涯海角无处停留
I’m the wind in the trees .................. 我只是穿越树叶一缕风
Would you wait for me forever? ...... ....... 你是否会在孤寂的街口等我

My December Horoscope by Susan Miller

Best date nights include December 7, 15, 20, 21, 25, 29, and 31.

At the start of the month, you've got your head down and out of the line of fire. You'll be pushing to complete a job at the office, due on or shortly after December 4, and you'll need to marshal your resources to get it all done.

You'll be vulnerable to sniffles at this time, so get more rest, keep up the fresh OJ, and delegate some of your work to others if you can. If you have medical matters that need attention, you'd find the right specialist to bring you comfort. Your luck with hospitals and medical practitioners will extend to finding medical help for friends and family members too, so whether you or a loved one needs a tune-up, you have the force on your side.

You may be selected to work on an ultra-secret project this month, one that will demand quite a bit of strategic direction from you. If so, you'll dazzle others with your brilliant suggestions and insights, and others on the team will be eager to follow your lead. It would most likely begin to percolate from the new moon, December 20, onward, proving that even though the rest of the world may be busy celebrating the holidays, you seem to have other things going on that will be important and that will require your full concentration, either for work or in your personal life.

Now and in the coming months, you'll take more of an off-stage role, one that will eminently suit you. While you have no problems being in the spotlight, lately you've come to realize that being the director, rather than the actor in the limelight, is the place where your true power lies. You are about to make a name for yourself and solve a recent financial shortfall in the process.

Romantically, your social life will perk up enormously after Venus enters your sign, from December 11 to January 3, just in time for holiday parties. Venus will bring out your natural charms, and even if you are shy, you'll find socializing easy. If you need to shop for something new to wear for an unexpected social event, do so during this phase, as Venus is in Capricorn (December 1 - 10) - if you do, your new outfit will bring you many compliments. This would also be the time to upgrade your appearance, for you'd likely be thrilled with results.

December 16 could be a standout date night, as the Sun and your ruler, Saturn, will be sweetly angled. If you are attached and need to talk over something important with your sweetie, things should go well if you bring them up this weekend.

Another standout romantic day would be December 21, the day the Sun enters your birth sign, and it will be doubly special if your birthday falls near this date.

New Year's Eve will be ideal for those coupled up. The approaching full moon on January 3 will mark this year's celebrations with lots of high key emotions - some will get engaged or married. If you are already attached, your partner appears to be plotting a surprise. Go with it - you'll love it.

Single? As odd as this sounds, a coworker may have a good idea of something to do this evening. Be the usual witty, charming self you are and let life open up to you. Good things happen when you venture outside your door. Happy birthday and Happy New Year!

我爱火锅，众所周知。

 

火锅是群体活动，我得找到拍档才跨进店门。曾经在一品小火锅店里看到一个日本女孤零零吃着一小锅，虽然那种小火锅就是为一人准备的，但看到她要求店员给她拍照的时候，还是觉得这么个吃法很是悲哀。从那幕开始，我身边的人们都开始倒了大霉。

 

首先是不爱火锅的爸妈，出现过几次被我游说成功陪我吃火锅的情况，目前的状况是，他们坚决抵制火锅，我妈的眉头在我一提火锅之前就皱，为了妈的皱纹，我放弃了抵抗。再次是不爱火锅的麻团，约会初期我较收敛，之后在他意识到我这癖好之后，我拉着好脾气的他陪我扫尽南京各大中小火锅店，即使旅游到杭州，在一排子店面中，还是被我拉着手迈进“九百锅”（不同于且好吃于南京1912的那家）。目前的状况是，他抵制火锅，但在我的威逼利诱下没我爸妈那么坚决，与我达成了一周吃一次的协议。接着还有陪我走过火锅路的阿怀同学，我以为他和我一样热爱着火锅，没想到他只是热爱着美食，简单说就是热爱着“叉饭”这一实践活动，对于火锅，此人没我虔诚，没我执着，更没我从一而终！在火锅的问题上，我终于失去了你！

 

昨晚和外公外婆老妈去南大的新杂志找饭吃，他们照例点的他们的最爱：京都排骨、咖喱牛腩和里脊，我点了进门时发现的海报上的——小火锅。我吃着吃着就找到了这几天思考的谁是我的“新火锅拍档”的答案，就是：EVERYONE。我吃我的火锅，你点你的乱七八糟饭饭，我不强迫你陪我一起吃火锅，但是我也可以吃到火锅。所以说有的时候灵感就是需要点发的。

 

欢迎各位盆友找我叉^_^新杂志的小火锅改良过了，比去年好吃！优点如下：

n  量超级大，我估摸着我昨晚一口气吃了半棵白菜和半棵生菜.

n  价格合适，借个南大的证件还可以打折.

n  选择面广，锅底5种，酱料4种，肉类4种，主食3种，你有5*4*4*3=240种套餐可自由选择（排列组合的事情，我没弄错吧--！）

n  送你一杯新鲜梨汁，虽然不海量，但省着喝还是够的。

 

当然如果你还是抵制陪我吃火锅，你也可以看着我吃，同时让我看着你吃什么饭饭面条色拉之类的，我不介意哒^_^